Private events & restaurant buyouts

Exterior of Lilac Montecito, a private event venue and restaurant buyout space in Montecito, California.

Host your next celebration at Lilac Montecito, a private event venue in Montecito offering full buyouts and intimate gatherings in an elevated, welcoming setting.

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  • Host with ease

    From full restaurant buyouts to intimate gatherings, our space adapts effortlessly to the size and feel of your event.

    Intimate table setting at Lilac Montecito, ideal for private dining and small private events in Montecito.

  • We handle the details

    From planning through the final toast, our team manages the details so you can stay present with your guests.

    Elegant event table with floral arrangement at Lilac Montecito, a private event venue offering seamless coordination.

  • Attentive service

    Thoughtful service, professionalism, and genuine attention make every gathering feel personal and well cared for.

    Food and wine service at Lilac Montecito showcasing thoughtful hospitality for private events and restaurant buyouts.

Private Events Venue Montecito

We welcome all kinds of private events in our exclusive space, including:

  • Intimate dinners and family celebrations

  • Milestones like birthdays, anniversaries, and showers

  • Holiday parties and seasonal gatherings

  • Elegant brunches and lunch events

  • Custom events tailored to your vision


Have something special in mind? Tell us your ideas and we’ll bring them to life.

Dessert served at Lilac Montecito showcasing elevated cuisine for private events and restaurant buyouts in Montecito.

Make Lilac Montecito Yours

Share your vision with us and let us handle the details. From planning to execution, we are here to make your exclusive event effortless and unforgettable.

At Lilac Montecito, our thoughtfully designed space blends elegance with ease. Whether you're hosting a seated dinner or a more casual celebration, our layout adapts beautifully to your event.

  • Full capacity: 55 seated guests

  • Partial buyout available starting at 20 guests

  • Full buyout begins at 30 guests

  • Available any day of the week

  • Booking 3 to 4 weeks in advance is strongly encouraged

Main Dining Room
An open, airy space with soft lighting and refined décor. Ideal for seated dinners, cocktail receptions, and multi-course gatherings.

Outdoor Patio (Seasonal)
A relaxed, sunlit setting perfect for alfresco brunches, welcome cocktails, passed appetizers, dessert tables, or farewell drinks.

Interior dining room at Lilac Montecito set for private events with elegant table settings and natural light.

 private events FAQs

  • Our restaurant comfortably hosts 55 guests, perfect for intimate gatherings.

  • We offer a range of service styles to match your event’s tone and flow. Options include buffet or family-style meals, as well as passed appetizers and dessert tables. Our team will help you select the right format based on your guest count, menu preferences, and overall vision.

  • Yes. Our team handles all event details, including service and coordination, to ensure a seamless experience.

  • At least two weeks ahead is recommended, but we suggest 3 to 4 weeks for the best availability, especially for holidays or larger events.

  • We recommend 20 guests for a partial buyout and 30 for a full. That said, we’re flexible and happy to accommodate smaller full buyouts when possible.

  • Yes. We offer customized options to satisfy all dietary needs.

  • Submit a quick inquiry, and our event specialists will be in touch to begin planning your private event.

Desserts and wine at Lilac Montecito private event venue, ideal for restaurant buyouts and celebrations in Montecito, California.

book your private event

Ready to host at one of the top Montecito event venues for parties? Submit an inquiry today and our team will walk you through your options, tailored to your vision and guest count.